It's good to talk
DID you know that, in a recent YouGov survey, around half of Britons said that they had an idea of how they would like their funeral?
According to the survey, a large majority of people would prefer to be cremated, while just 15% would like a burial.
Although the subject of death and dying is still one of the biggest taboos, it is still an important conversation to have with your loved ones.
Knowing that you have made the important plans and arrangements for your end of life means you can appreciate the here and now worry-free.
Gary Tye, manager of De Gruchy’s Funeral Care, believes that if it was not for the stigma and apprehension around the topic of death, important details about a person’s final wishes and funeral could be understood and fulfilled.
He said: ‘I believe that a funeral forms an important part of the grieving process. A funeral is for those we leave behind. It is for the family to arrange what they feel is appropriate for them and their loved one. Yet, a lot of worry and stress can be prevented with a funeral plan.’
Planning for the future
Helping to end the taboo
Gary has been manager at De Gruchy's Funeral Care for over ten years, having previously worked in a senior management role at The Channel Islands Co-operative Society. He has found much job satisfaction from his career change, and has qualified with the National Association of Funeral directors. His efforts have helped De Gruchy’s to be recommended by the Good Funeral Guide for several years in a row.
Shane is a funeral arranger and funeral director for De Gruchy's and has a diploma in Funeral Directing. He has worked in the funeral industry for over 20 years, having previously worked in funeral care in London and for Southern Co-operative in Portsmouth. He has been with De Gruchy’s Funeral Care for more than five years.
As well as being a funeral director, Neil is a civil celebrant. This allows him to arrange, direct and undertake the service as a celebrant, providing the best care and service to Islanders on every step of the journey. Since joining De Gruchy’s in 2018 as a trainee funeral director, Neil has excelled at all his qualifications and believes he has found his vocation in life.
Ken started out in the funeral business in 1999 and has been involved in all aspects of preparing and arranging funerals for our island families and those who live further afield. He is committed to assisting bereaved families with the loss of their loved ones, with the utmost dignity and respect.
